Synopsis: Tara Westover is trapped in a family life that most outsiders would consider a nightmare, but in Tara’s mind, it’s her normal reality. Growing up in an extreme home life where they have a fear based belief that the government is after them was her “normal”. Her family did not believe in the use of medical care or in giving their children an education because it would result in a reliance on the government. She dealt with the craziness of her lifestyle based on the belief that this was how living life was supposed to be. This is the story of Tara Westover’s journey to rising above her circumstances and her quest to being educated. Her education was the key to her freedom.
My Thoughts:
Tara Westover is a brilliant author who captivates and holds the attention of her audience. I was caught up in the story and I desired to see what would happen next. I believe Tara accomplished what she set out to do as an author. She was able to convey her story and give the reader a clear picture of her experience and what she had walked out in her journey to being educated. I admire how she was able to rise above her circumstances, regardless of where she came from. The cards were stacked against her and yet she emerged out of the chaos victorious.
It took about 2 months to finish this book because of the disturbing journey that Tara had experienced. Tara Westover truly painted a captivating story but I wanted justice to be served. The abuse that the children experienced in the Westover home was unjust. Her parents should be punished for their treatment of their family. So, that being said, a pattern began to emerge with my journey in reading this book. I would read a few chapters and then let it sit on my shelf for a week where I would quickly pick up a happier book. This is probably a testament to the author’s amazing writing because of the anger it evoked in me to see her story unfold. If reading about abusive relationships is a trigger for you, this may not be the book for you to read.
What stood out to me about this book was the message about education. I believe each person is responsible for their own education. Each individual is responsible for their own desire to learn. Teachers can teach, but students have to embrace the learning. I can send my kids to the best schools or give them the best education possible, but they individually have to decide to learn. We cannot as teachers or parents force our children to learn. Being educated is a choice.
Education is a key to freedom. When my children attain a love of learning, it will open up more doors for them in the world. They will seek out the answers to the questions that exist daily in their minds. If my kids leave the nest, becoming life long learners, I have succeeded as a homeschool parent. I hope all my children make the decision to pursue higher education in their journey beyond my doors. Let my ceiling be their floor.
Tara Westover wrote a thought provoking memoir that will leave an impression in my mind for awhile. I am so delighted that she chose to rise above her circumstances and pursue an education.
Recommended For:
People who enjoy page turning memoirs that capture your attention until the end. Also, if you enjoy reading about a volatile family life that the protagonist is able to overcome, then you would enjoy this book. If abusive family relationships are a trigger for you, this may not be the book for you.
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