The delightful practice of rereading.

About a year ago, if we were in the middle of a conversation about books and our current reading life and you asked me if I was in the habit of rereading books, I probably would have thought that was a ridiculous question. Why would I ever want to reread a book, when there are so many books to read? This is a complete waste of time. In the past year, I have been persuaded otherwise. Now, I must say that not all books are created alike and some books are definitely not worth reading a second time. I would even venture to say that there are some books not even worth finishing. On the other side of that argument, there are many books worth rereading to discover the treasure you may have missed.

CS Lewis is probably one of my all time favorite authors. His thought provoking books will lead you on a journey into the world of literature he has created. The “Chronicles of Narnia” are an example of a book series that is worth rereading. The first time I was introduced to the world of Narnia, I was a child and I took considerable delight in the story that was set before me. Children enjoy the “Chronicles of Narnia” simply because its an amazing story. They are perhaps unaware of the deeper meaning embedded in the series, which you might see as an adult. CS Lewis once said “No book is worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally-and often far more-worth reading at the age of fifty and beyond.”

I started rereading the “Chronicles of Narnia” as a read aloud to my children. I am now convinced that everyone as an adult not just children should read the “Narnia” series. I loved the series as a child, but I loved it more as an adult. As a child, I enjoyed the story, but the deeper meaning of the text that the author was trying to convey went over my head. For example, there is this scene from the second book in the series called “Prince Caspian”. One of the main characters named Lucy and a lion named Aslan who is the King of the Kingdom are having a conversation. Lucy observes that Aslan has gotten bigger since the last time she saw him. Aslan’s response is “…every year you will grow, you will find me bigger”. I was sitting there reading this passage to my children and the meaning of this conversation caught me off guard as an adult. Aslan is allegorically a picture of Christ. As I grow in Christ, God becomes bigger in my life. As I understand who God is and what He is like, I understand more and more that He is the author of the impossible becoming possible. Reading this passage as a child did not have the same impact on me as an adult. I was slowly being persuaded that rereading might not be the waste of time I thought it to be.

I have recently joined a bookclub in the hope that it would help me expand my reading life. I am a creature of habit and reading the same type of books is a comfortable and easy place I don’t want to leave. The word “change” is a word I try to avoid instead of embrace. That being said, I knew I wanted to expand my reading life and a book club seemed like a motivating road to take. This month we read “Pride and Prejudice” by Jane Austen. This was my third reading of “Pride and Prejudice”. I enjoyed the book even more the third time, compared to previous readings. When you reread a book, you are able to slow down and see observations that you might have missed before, because you are already familiar with the storyline.

There were some observations that I noticed in reading “Pride and Prejudice” that I hadn’t in previous reads. What stood out to me was the pride and prejudice of Elizabeth Bennet. She had always appeared to be the heroine in my mind with very little flaws. This time however, I noticed how she seemed to have a prejudice against the women that surrounded her. Elizabeth Bennet’s character is quite harsh on the women in her life. Her observations of their behavior leads you to see Elizabeth thinking she is better than the people that surround her. On previous reads, I had always thought the title reflected Elizabeth Bennet to having the “Pride” and Mr. Darcy having the “Prejudice”. This time I noticed that the title actually reflects many of the characters having both pride and prejudice throughout the entire novel. I realized that perhaps Jane Austen might have meant a broader meaning in the use of her title. This was only one of the many new observations that captured my attention. “Pride and Prejudice” was definitely worth rereading.

My final example is a recent short novella that I read by Fredrik Backman called “And Every Morning The Way Home Gets Longer and Longer”. The first time I read this book, I thought it was a pleasing story, but I didn’t quite understand the plot line. I decided to read it a second time due to the author’s poetic style of writing with this novella. The first time, I had rushed through, wanting to know what happened in the story. I decided I needed to slow down to perhaps capture more of the message that the author was trying to convey. I am so glad I made the decision to slow down. Slowing down was necessary with this particular book to understand the beauty of what Fredrick Backman was writing. After the second time of reading this novella, I thought it was a touching and beautiful story worth reading.

Rereading great books is a delightful practice that I have now incorporated into my reading life. There are some books worth taking your time to read again. Rereading allows us to slow down and see perhaps things we might have missed on the first time around. I think C.S. Lewis gives us a thoughtful perspective on rereading in the following quote:

“We do not enjoy a story fully at the first reading. Not till the curiosity, the sheer narrative lust, has been given its sop and laid asleep, are we at leisure to savor the real beauties.”- C.S. Lewis

What are your favorite books that you have reread?

Do you think rereading is a waste of time or do you enjoy it as part of your reading life?

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Book Review- “Educated” by Tara Westover

Synopsis: Tara Westover is trapped in a family life that most outsiders would consider a nightmare, but in Tara’s mind, it’s her normal reality. Growing up in an extreme home life where they have a fear based belief that the government is after them was her “normal”. Her family did not believe in the use of medical care or in giving their children an education because it would result in a reliance on the government. She dealt with the craziness of her lifestyle based on the belief that this was how living life was supposed to be. This is the story of Tara Westover’s journey to rising above her circumstances and her quest to being educated. Her education was the key to her freedom.

My Thoughts:

Tara Westover is a brilliant author who captivates and holds the attention of her audience. I was caught up in the story and I desired to see what would happen next. I believe Tara accomplished what she set out to do as an author. She was able to convey her story and give the reader a clear picture of her experience and what she had walked out in her journey to being educated. I admire how she was able to rise above her circumstances, regardless of where she came from. The cards were stacked against her and yet she emerged out of the chaos victorious.

It took about 2 months to finish this book because of the disturbing journey that Tara had experienced. Tara Westover truly painted a captivating story but I wanted justice to be served. The abuse that the children experienced in the Westover home was unjust. Her parents should be punished for their treatment of their family. So, that being said, a pattern began to emerge with my journey in reading this book. I would read a few chapters and then let it sit on my shelf for a week where I would quickly pick up a happier book. This is probably a testament to the author’s amazing writing because of the anger it evoked in me to see her story unfold. If reading about abusive relationships is a trigger for you, this may not be the book for you to read.

What stood out to me about this book was the message about education. I believe each person is responsible for their own education. Each individual is responsible for their own desire to learn. Teachers can teach, but students have to embrace the learning. I can send my kids to the best schools or give them the best education possible, but they individually have to decide to learn. We cannot as teachers or parents force our children to learn. Being educated is a choice.

Education is a key to freedom. When my children attain a love of learning, it will open up more doors for them in the world. They will seek out the answers to the questions that exist daily in their minds. If my kids leave the nest, becoming life long learners, I have succeeded as a homeschool parent. I hope all my children make the decision to pursue higher education in their journey beyond my doors. Let my ceiling be their floor.

Tara Westover wrote a thought provoking memoir that will leave an impression in my mind for awhile. I am so delighted that she chose to rise above her circumstances and pursue an education.

Recommended For:

People who enjoy page turning memoirs that capture your attention until the end. Also, if you enjoy reading about a volatile family life that the protagonist is able to overcome, then you would enjoy this book. If abusive family relationships are a trigger for you, this may not be the book for you.

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“Inheritance” by Dani Shapiro

“Inheritance” by Dani Shapiro is a memoir of her journey to discovering a family secret that will forever alter her perspective on how she looks at her life.

SPOILER ALERT- If you love memoirs that are introspective and contain family secrets, you would enjoy this book. Do not read reviews or the synopsis of this book if you want to discover the family secret on your own. The family secret reveals itself in the first couple of chapters. It is hard to write a synopsis without giving away what the family secret is. So if you love to be surprised, quit reading this review and go and read the book.

Synopsis-

A family secret has been kept from Dani all her life. The very existence of this secret will change the perspective Dani Shapiro has on her past and future. In 2016, Dani decides on a whim to learn more about her heritage by obtaining genetic testing. Much to her bewilderment, she finds out that her father is not her biological father. She discovers at the age of 54 that she is in no way related to the father that raised her. This sends her on a personal journey of disclosing where she came from and who she belongs to. She also raises the question on why her family would keep this secret from her. Dani Shapiro’s memoir follows her investigation in solving who she is and the mystery of her existence.

My Thoughts-

Dani Shapiro is an amazing writer. My attention was captured and I could see the journey that she walked in this discovery. I was intrigued by her descriptions of her Jewish culture that she was raised in. I loved the Hebrew that she sprinkled throughout her text. A couple of years ago, I had the privilege of going to Israel and learning briefly about the culture. Her descriptions of her family life made me want to go back.

Although Dani Shapiro is a gifted writer, which made it worth my reading time, I was frustrated with the amount of pages it took to talk about the one family secret of her origin. I cannot imagine how traumatic it would be to find out you did not come from the family that you thought you came from, but I do think the book dragged a bit on this one subject. I honestly think the book would have been boring, but Dani Shapiro was able to keep my attention due to the quality of her writing.

I would also like to explain that I am not a fan of being introspective on one subject, the story has to keep moving to keep my attention. As I was reading this memoir, I kept waiting for there to be deeper layers to the family secret or perhaps other family secret unveiled, but it was mostly Dani Shapiro’s journey and feelings on how she handled her discovery. I know that this is a popular book and so my taste definitely will not align with many people, but that is the beauty of humankind. We are all unique and I believe it would be boring if we all adored the same books.

I would give this book a 3/5 stars based on the quality of writing but lack of interest in my opinion.

Recommended For-

If you love introspective memoirs, wonderful writing, and a touch of mystery, then you will enjoy “Inheritance” by Dani Shapiro.

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My favorite audible books for 2019 so far….

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  1. The Lake House by Kate Morton

If you enjoy beautiful language and a cozy mystery, you will enjoy “The Lake House” by Kate Morton. The audible version is narrated by Caroline Lee who has wonderful pacing and a British accent. The Lake House is a slower paced mystery, so I found that I enjoyed it more as an audible. I was able to accomplish the cleaning of my house while being entertained by this audio. The Lake House follows the Edevane family who harbor an unsolved family mystery. The book takes place in two time periods. Moving between the scene of the crime and the current time period where detective Sadie is trying to solve this cold case. What I love about this book was the unexpected ways the mystery was solved and how the different characters ended up being connected. It’s a great audible book to use your free credits because its a long one, so you feel like your getting more book for your credits.

2. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

This book probably needs no introduction. Okay, I have a confession to make, I did not read Pride and Prejudice until I was an adult. Although, I must say I sometimes feel like we can appreciate some classics more if we wait until we are at a different stage in life. I am delighting in my journey of catching up on the classics. Right now, I am listening to David Copperfield by Charles Dickens. Charles Dickens was a phenomenal writer. In my opinion, these classics are the best in audible format. The Pride and Prejudice that I listened to was narrated by Rosamund Pike. Another amazing British reading narrator. You might be able to tell from my list that I am kind of fond of a British accent. In my opinion, Jane Austen books are better because of it. Rosamund Pike did an excellent job of distinguishing the different characters voices and I could easily follow the storyline. I am looking forward to listening to it again in August for my bookclub.

3. At Home in the World by Tsh Oxenreider

A memoir following Tsh Oxenreider and her family’s journey as they take a year to travel the world. The audible version is read by the author. I adore memoirs that are read by the author because you can receive a better picture of the world they are trying to paint for you. I felt like I was able to step into the different countries as she was describing each place they visited. It was definitely a dangerous book for me to read because it caused my love of travel to increase. The audible version is well paced and an easy read to listen to while you clean your house or perhaps drive to your next errand. I have a full review under the category “Book Reviews” if you want more details on this book. I loved this book so much that I bought the printed version as well. It was worthy of a spot on my bookshelf.

4. Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson

“Brown Girl Dreaming” is a book written entirely in verse. The entire book is series of poems that connect to the tell the story of the author’s childhood. This book is also read by the author. Books that are written in verse, in my opinion, are better on audio. Especially if they are read by the author. The rhythms and cadence of the written word become clear to the reader as you listen to the book. The language is beautifully poetic and yet you can understand the story that the author has written. If you have never tried a book in verse, try it in an audible version. These books in verse are worth your time.

5. The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo

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I recently did a book review on the blog about this book, but it still makes it in my top 5 for favorite audible books this year. The narrator is Emily Woo Zellar and she did an amazing job of narrating this book. I was delighted by the humor that was brought out by the narrator which I might have missed by just reading the book. At certain parts of the book, I outright laughed due to some of the antics of Marie Kondo’s clients. For more information, check out my full review on this book under the category “Book Reviews”. This was definitely a motivational book to listen to as I cleaned my house. The author did a wonderful job of storytelling in a way that made you want to listen more. I believe I finished this book in about 3 days.

So, why do I love audio books? Audible books are an easy way for me to read more books. I am a busy mama with a list of things in a day greater than I can accomplish in a month. My favorite pastime is to relax in a comfy chair with a book and a cup of tea but sometimes life gets in the way. My solution to still feeding into my love of reading, is audiobooks. They are my saving grace for a bookworm problem.

What has been your favorite Audiobook in 2019 so far?

“Love walked in” by Marisa de Los Santos-Book Review

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Synopsis: Cornelia Brown is waiting for love to come into her life. That perfect moment when boy meets girl and they live happily ever after. When Martin Grace walks into her coffee shop, she doesn’t realize that her life is about to change and love will be entering her life in the most unexpected ways. This is story of how love walking into your life and you choosing to love back can change the world that you are in.

Why I like it: This book was an unexpected delight. I picked up this book because many people were recommending how wonderful it was, but I also had some preconceived ideas on what it might be about. I thought it would just be an easy summer read that was a wonderful way to spend an afternoon. I loved how the book was nothing like I expected. The book went so much deeper. It ended up being a relaxing read but it was also a book that provoked you to think.

Love did walk into Cornelia’s life but not in the romantic way I was thinking. Love came in the form of a young girl who would change Cornelia’s life completely. I was moved by the choice of Cornelia to love this young girl in her time of need. Cornelia chose to step out of her comfort zone to be there for Clare (the young girl). The author was able to draw us into the beauty of Cornelia’s love for Clare. There is also some romance for all those who love to read about happily ever afters.

This book gave me pause, to think. It was a gentle reminder that we called to love people and be kind in our everyday life. You never know when your action of kindness or help will change someone’s world. It could be a simple as helping a neighbor, taking time to listen to someone’s story or an act of kindness that someone was not expecting.

Sometimes I am so caught up in my own world and business that I don’t take the time to notice the world around me. The people that I interact with everyday at the grocery store or in my neighborhood or at the park. They have their own story and maybe, even if its just once in awhile, its my job to listen.

Content Warning: Overall a Clean Read- some bad language and adult themes. Not for a younger audience.